Live Cruise

Imagine you are on a cruise and you go to a different seas and stop by at different ports. So every time you stop at a different port, you eat the food of the area, fish or meat or chicken or veggies, or fruits, etc..and some food makes you feel good, some energetic, some bad, some makes you sick, you have diarrhea, you have constipation, you don't digest some of them..You definitely love some, and you want to try even more when you go back home to keep the connection, to taste it again and again... Those makes you sick, you forgive and you pay more attention next time you have it again. May be it was not clean enough, may be not very well cooked, may be too spicy, may be combination, may be you meant to be sick, may be that food was just not for your taste. You don't have to like every fruit, as you don't have to like every bit of the same fruit either. You try it again, you give the chance until you are sure that food is bad for you..May be you go further and see why it is bad for you in an emotional level, beyond physical.
Food become part of you and you become part of it. You absorb everything you see but you don't digest all. You are not meant to digest all. And you only like some, not all.

Life is like this. Every time you stop in a different place, you meet different people. Some makes you feel good, some stronger, some makes you sick, some you don't understand, some pain in the ass, you have constipation, you don't get along or some you love forever and you want to keep the connection where ever you go and you want to taste it again and again and again...
Those you don't like; you pay more attention next time you interact with them. Or next time you meet someone similar. May be it was miscommunication, may be they are not part of your harmony, may be you had high expectations, may be they are too spicy, may be combination of all. Though you give the chance until you are sure they are not meant to be part of your life; at least at that moment. You don't have to like every person just like you don't have to like every minute of conversation with a loved one. You don't need to digest everyone, though with time and exercise and compassion you can understand them. So just accept them, accept yourself,and accept your boundaries. Though first you must know them.

Unconditional love doesn't mean you have to like everyone, if you are hugging someone you don't like, then you don't accept and respect yourself. Accept everyone as they are, including you, and be with those who give you harmony.